At times we are misguided into thinking that a good match would be someone who is identical to us.
To the contrary, however, a good match is often that which is one that is opposite.
If you are the “yin” then a good match would be the “yang”
If you are a magnet then a good match would be steel.
Ask a socket what would be a good match?
and the reply would be a plug
To fit a jigsaw puzzle together then the pieces have to be different to fit.
Therefore if you are looking for a good match, then look at opposites.
Yes, it would be nice to be two peas in a pod, but peas in pods do not fit together.
However, negatives and positives do attract, so look for your opposite